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When to host a baby shower

Tradition is out the window, and anytime anywhere parties are in! Traditionally, baby showers are held about six weeks prior to the due date of the baby. Many mothers today however, are electing to have their baby showers after the birth of the baby. The most important task is to ask the mother when she would like to have it.

Baby showers given after the birth of the baby allow friends and family to see the newborn at one time. This may cut down on the amount of visits, which can be very tiring for the new parents. Belated baby showers also allow the guests to buy the appropriate clothing (color and size) for the newborn. This takes the guesswork out of boy or girl, big or small baby issues.

You should start the planning phase of a baby shower at least six weeks before the shower date. When you know how many guests will be invited, you can start to make arrangements for where and what time the shower should be held. Be careful to make sure there is adequate space for the number of guests anticipated. It is important for all guests and especially the mom to be comfortable and at ease. This will ensure a successful party.

The shower can be held during the week or weekends. Generally speaking, weekends are the more popular alternative. Most guests have full time jobs and will be able to more likely make an appearance if the shower is on the weekend when their work schedule is not as hectic. Saturday is the most common day that showers are held. Showers can be held on Sunday, but need to take into consideration times that guests will be at church services. The goal is to set a time that is convenient for the mother and for guests so that you will have a good attendance.

Kimberly Bagley is a Certified Public Accountant in Texas and owner of Mom’s World Online at www.momsworldonline.com where she offers financial guidance, inspiration, organizational resources, and other products to help make mom’s life a little simpler! Sign up for her bi-weekly newsletter at www.momsworldonline.com/newsletter.html .