Kids and Chores - Keeping Your Kids from Dreading Chores
Aug 26th, 2008 | By admin | Category: Family LifeUnless your child is extremely neat, they probably don’t like to help out at home. If this is the case, you may be searching for some help. Here are some tips for keeping your kids from dreading their chores.
Since most children are eager to help mommy and daddy, take advantage of that willingness to help. Start while your children are young by having them help you clean up the house. Find some tasks that are easy enough for them to do and let them do those each time you do housework.
As they grow older, ask them to do more chores or to help you complete the chores you have to do. Establish a routine of which chores should be done on which day. This will break down the tasks so they don’t all have to be done in one day. It will also help your whole family know what to expect on a certain day of the week.
Don’t let your child procrastinate when it comes to doing chores. If you let them put off doing their chores once, they’ll try it again to see how serious you are about their chores being done. You might want to be sure you’re not procrastinating, too, because it doesn’t provide a good role model for your child to follow.
If you have more than one child, consider switching chores periodically so no one gets bored doing the same chore over and over. Another way to help make chores less boring is to have a contest where the one who finishes with their chores first, to your satisfaction, earns extra time on their gaming system.
Try to think of some ways to make doing chores fun. Have contests to see if your child can beat their own time of completing their chores. Maybe you could hide a coupon at the bottom of the trash can for your child to find. You could also place one in the bottom of the laundry basket. If they do their chores, they should find the coupons you’ve placed there.
Many parents choose to associate an allowance with chores. However, experts suggest that children should not be paid for doing their chores. Chores are a responsibility of everyone in the home. By completing their chores, they are contributing to the success of the family and the household.
If you decide to give them an allowance and want it to be somewhat tied to their chores, why not base their allowance on their attitude when they do their chores. Or you can pay their allowance based on how many times you have to remind them to do their chores. By doling out allowances in this way, your child realizes that they will have to do their chores regardless of whether or not they receive an allowance.
Help your child learn about responsibility by assigning chores for them to do each day. They may grumble and complain about doing them, but there are ways to keep your child from dreading their chores. Make them as fun as possible by getting suggestions from your children to make things more fun. If you can make them fun, you may find that you don’t have to nag your children to do their chores any longer.
















