Choosing the Right Babysitter

If you’re like many parents, you long for the day that you could hire a neighborhood teen to watch your children while you’re away from home.  Unfortunately, those days are long gone.  Now a parent has to be so careful when choosing the right babysitter.  These tips may help you in that search.

[ad]Ask people that you trust, like friends, neighbors, or those you attend church with, who they use as a sitter.  Another option would be to check with your child’s pediatrician or doctor’s office staff to see if they have recommendations.  Hearing positive recommendations from others will greatly increase your confidence in choosing someone to watch your children.

Take the time needed to properly interview any potential sitter.  Because it’s so hard to know who to trust these days, you will want to ask for references for any potential babysitter.  Don’t just take the names and numbers from them; make sure you call each and every person on the list to verify their experience.  It may seem like excessive, but your child’s life is in this person’s hands.

First and foremost, the safety of your children should be considered.  Therefore, it is important for any babysitter to know basic first aid and cardiac pulmonary resuscitation (CPR).  They should also know to call you in case of an emergency, but only after they have contacted any necessary professional help.

If your children are very young, consider getting an older sitter – someone who has obviously had experience with young children.  A grandmother-type would be preferable for infants or toddlers.  An older teen would be suitable for elementary and older children.  Unless you are extremely familiar and comfortable with them, it is not recommended to allow a young teen to baby-sit.

Don’t hesitate to ask the potential sitter to come over and spend some time with your children while you’re home, but busy in another room.  This will allow you the opportunity to see how they interact with your children, and possibly alert you to any potential problems.

Think outside of the box. Most people assume that girls are the only ones that can successfully watch children.  Nothing could be further from the truth.  Boys, or young men, could even be more effective at watching your children, particularly if you have boys.

Children are a precious gift and so we want to do what’s best for them.  When we do have to leave them with a sitter, we want to know that we can trust to keep the children safe, but also entertained.  Choosing the right babysitter may take some time, but this person will play a very important part in your family’s life.  Take your time and choose the best person for all of you.
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Baked Beans Recipe – Bean Bake

Bean Bake

Ingredients:

6 bacon slices
1 medium onion chopped
½ C. ketchup
3 Tbsp. dark brown sugar
1 Tbsp. cider vinegar
1 tsp. salt
1 tsp. dry mustard
1 (16 oz.) can pork and beans
1 (16 oz.) can kidney beans, drained
1 (16 oz.) can lima beans or butter beans, drained

Directions:

Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. Cook bacon in medium skillet over medium heat until crisp, about 5 minutes. Transfer bacon to paper towels; reserve drippings. Add onions to skillet with drippings and cook until translucent, stirring occasionally, about 7 minutes. Transfer onion with dripping to large bowl. Add next 5 ingredients to bowl. Crumble bacon and add to onion mixture. Mix in pork and beans, lima beans and kidney beans. Transfer to 9 x 13 baking dish. Bake until mixture bubbles, 30 to 35 minutes.

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Choosing a Baby Sling

Baby carriers or baby slings have been around as long as babies have been around.  Different regions with different needs have developed unique carries.  With the internet making the world a smaller place every day, you can now find baby carriers of all shapes, forms and fashions.  With a little searching you are sure to find a baby carrier that will fit your needs.

[ad]Finding the best baby sling is a personal journey.  Every baby will have different needs and every mother will have different requirements.  One child may do wonderfully in a pouch and the second child (from the same parents) may refuse to stay put.  Time can also be a factor.  If you are only going to be using the pouch for a few minutes, then something that takes lots of straps or wrapping may not be justified.

The Ring Sling is one that is great for giving you a free hand around the house, and is mostly used with newborn babies.  It consists of a length of cloth that is attached to two rings on one side.  The other end of the cloth is threaded through the two rings, forming a pouch for baby.  When the baby is in the pouch, the weight of the baby causes the threaded fabric to lock into place.

Fabric Pouches are similar in use to the Ring Sling, only without the rings.  They consist on one solid tube of cloth that is draped over the mother’s shoulders and creates a pouch for the baby.  These can be bought commercially or made by hand (just avoid slippery material if you do make your own).

Wraps are several yards of fabric that are wrapped around the baby and the wearer and then tied.  It allows almost any piece of sturdy cloth to be turned into a sling or wrap (even bed sheets can be used for this purpose).  The only limit to how you can secure the baby on the carrier is the length of the fabric that is being used.  These are great for hands-free carrying – in the front or in the back.  They can also be used to carry toddlers.

Backpack Carriers (or Mei Tai) is traditionally a square piece of cloth with straps coming out of each corner.  It is secured by bringing all the straps around the person doing the carrying to be tied all together.  It can act as a front or back carrier and can be used with toddlers or infants that can hold up their head well.

The best baby carrier is one that is comfortable and convenient for you and for your baby.  Forget about all the hype and hearsay; before you buy a carrier you should try it out for yourself. 
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